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I am looking for led set up for my 220. I heard ecoxotic is coming out with a new pendant. Any advise pros and cons.... Need to buy lights with in the next month. I have about $3000 to spend need some help...

Welcome back. And may all your reef wishes come true. Happy reefing!!!!

Welcome back, Jose. Glad to hear you are starting off the new year with salty friends again.

wow i thought i was the only to pack my bags over my tank (kinda other stuff also, but tank was in top 5 reasons). good luck sorry you didnt get a chance to save the tank before it got ruined.

Sorry about your tank. Hope everything goes well.

Originally Posted by Douwant2play

No Bueno! Man I don't think I would be on RA if my wife did this, I would probably be explaining myself to the authorities!

LMAO

WOW! I can only say if I got home to what you came to, the stare I would give that woman prior to going nuts would be enough to scare her into running out the door and never coming back.

Good luck and sorry for the loss.

No Bueno! Man I don't think I would be on RA if my wife did this, I would probably be explaining myself to the authorities!

Hey, that's pretty harsh. I had a small tank when I was 11, and enjoyed it while it lasted.

The day I walked out of the courthouse with my divorce papers in hand, I went straight to the nearest LFS and bought my 29g that so many followed during its 7 year stretch. So when you said you're getting divorced to get a new tank, I completely understand.

I didn't understand your first blog because you said she killed the tank. There are a few ways of doing so, as well as it being metaphorical. That's why I kept asking what happened.

The dog thing is so true. My wife wanted a pet, but never wanted to deal with it. An indoor dog or cat bothered her as well. We had a few different dogs over the years, but we never got attached to one because of her attitude. She has that same attitude to this day, I'm sad to say - poor animals! My son and I adopted a nice cocker spaniel after we moved into this house, and it was with us for about 5 or 6 years until it died of old age. For the past 2 years, I didn't get anything else and simply enjoyed my reef. In late March, I adopted a bunny from a club member that lives indoors and keeps me company when I watch tv.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's almost criminal what she did. Good luck dealing with that type of person.

I hope it works out for you and it comes to a um.... peaceful and amicable resolution. I wish you the best.

Originally Posted by fchidsey

Wow there are many things I could say about that but it would be very inappropriate therefore I will just say sorry about your tank man that really sucks.

You could say the many things you wanted to say. It wont bother. What bother me was what happened,because I dont think she had that right. Thanks for your comment.

Ouch ... ! Sorry to hear of your loss.

Wow there are many things I could say about that but it would be very inappropriate therefore I will just say sorry about your tank man that really sucks.

What happened specifically? Bleach?

Originally Posted by melev

Jose, did she kill it or simply take away your desire and money? I'm confused.

My friend she killed everything sorry for the misunderstanding

I had to figure out how to get my wife's approval. She home schools our twin daughters, so I told her I would turn it into a science curriculum:-) She bought it...we'll not literally!

Awe! Sorry that you have a woman that hasn't seen the light.

dude,
all you need is a little coaching. or just bug the crap out of her till she lets you do it ... ALWAYS WORKS!!! LMFAO!!

Jose, did she kill it or simply take away your desire and money? I'm confused.

+1 and now i know less

Good for you phil. I have to say that I have never had a fresh water tank and don't know the first thing about them other then I don't like them.